Exactly How To Be A Good Girlfriend In 5 Easy Steps

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In this post, I am going to tell you how to be a good girlfriend.  Because sad to say so many women do not know how to be a good girlfriend and they mistake being a good girlfriend for:

  • Being his mom. 
  • Doing everything he says. 
  • Being selfish and thinking that the relationship is all about them instead of actually giving to the relationship. 

When women wonder how to be a good girlfriend they normally either fall on one end of the spectrum or the next.  On the one hand, some women think that being a good girlfriend is being codependent and that you become his maid. And on the other hand, some women have no idea how to be a good girlfriend, and instead, they are selfish and think that the men are supposed to be their slaves.  This is why I am going to give you actual tips on how to be a good girlfriend that will actually make a positive difference in your relationship. 

1. How To Be A Good Girlfriend ~ Find An Equally Yoked Man To Be A Good Girlfriend To

It can be very hard to be a good girlfriend to a man child or a man that is a bad boyfriend.  There are good women out there going out with men that have a whole lot of problems and then the woman is stuck doing the most trying to be a good girlfriend to a bad man when really you can never be a good girlfriend to a bad man. Remember this: 

Do not be unequally bound together with unbelievers [do not make mismatched alliances with them, inconsistent with your faith]. For what partnership can righteousness have with lawlessness? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14

One of the best tips to being a good girlfriend is to look at who you are trying to be a good girlfriend to and find out if they are even worth your time of day or worth the goodness that you are about to get them.  You would much rather invest in a man that is worth your time and can treat you right in return over a bad boyfriend that will never give you what you give him.  Also, check out my video on the dangers of picking an unequally yoked man.  And don’t forget to subscribe to my channel by clicking here. 

2. How To Be A Good Girlfriend ~ Don’t Be Selfish

I think that you would be shocked at how many women are just plain selfish in relationships and most of them do not even realize it.  In case you did not realize it you do not get into a relationship to get from the other person.  The relationship is not all about you.  And one way to be a bad girlfriend is to be in a relationship and to always think about yourself. 

Always taking, wanting, and never giving.  A good relationship is a mix of BOTH the girlfriend and the boyfriend giving to one another.  If you are both thinking about what you can give to the situation, how you can make each other happy, over what you can get then the relationship will run a lot smoother.  Which I talked about in my book for single women which you can click here to get. 

3. How To Be A Good Girlfriend ~ Don’t Be A Debbie Downer

There are so many girlfriends that are just downers.  They don’t want to do anything, they don’t want to try anything, they don’t want to go anywhere, they don’t want to smile, and all the time that their men spend with them is just a big ball of depression.  Don’t be the type of girlfriend that no one wants to be around.  You can also watch my video down below where I talk more about traits that turn men off.

4. How To Be A Good Girlfriend ~ Be Seductive And Not The Anti Seducer 

One of the ways to be a good girlfriend is to know how to draw your boyfriend in.  For him to be attracted to you and to not be repelled from you.  There are many anti seductive traits that women do that actually show that they are a bad girlfriend.  These traits actually come directly from the book the Art of Seduction.  I did an entire video on traits that will turn your man off that you can watch down below. 

5. How To Be A Good Girlfriend ~ Care About Your Temple

One way to be a good girlfriend for yourself and for your boyfriend is to take care of yourself.  I know many women do not want to hear this but your man does not want to sit and look at you looking like who did it and what for.  Just like you do not want your man to look like who did it and what for. 

When you step out of the house try to look presentable (which I have a 10 minute make up routine that you can follow for a quick and easy way to look presentable).  Look like you care about yourself, like you put the effort in yourself, allow for your boyfriend to want to be proud to be seen with you and not ashamed.  

I am not just talking about how to care about your outside appearance but also honoring yourself in how you behave as well.  I have a video down below that you can watch.  When you honor yourself on both the inside and out that is when you will find it easier for your man to honor you.  Just like the good book says: 

Charm and grace are deceptive, and [superficial] beauty is vain,  But a woman who fears the Lord [reverently worshiping, obeying, serving, and trusting Him with awe-filled respect], she shall be praised. Proverbs 31: 30 

It is a lot easier for your man to have full confidence in you if you are a good person through and through.  You care about your body, your temple, your appearance, your attitude, and your behavior.  Because this is what will make you stand out and be a woman that a man wants to hang on to.  

These are the top 5 tips on how to be a good girlfriend.  Real tips that will actually carry your relationship further and will help your boyfriend appreciate you more.  If you know someone who needs to read this post then go ahead and share it with them. 

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