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In this post, I want to tell you how God leads you to your spouse. Because the fact of the matter is, is that everything that concerns you concerns God even your singleness. So don’t ever think that God is not working behind the scenes to lead you to your spouse. The only thing you have to do is to notice the signs.
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1. How God Leads You To Your Spouse ~ Chase The Purpose Over The Person
One thing that people need to understand when it comes to how God leads you to your spouse is that often times your spouse is along the journey to your purpose. Take, for example, Ruth. We all know that when we read the book of Ruth that she was a widow, and she chose to go to Bethlehem.
In my book for single women “Fix It Jesus For Single Women Only” (click here to buy) I noted the following about Ruth. Just to show how going about your life and not being resistant to change is one of the ways on how God leads you to your spouse.
When Ruth got to Bethlehem, she was ready to go to work. That was really the only choice she had. Naomi was too old to work and there was no man of the house who was going to chip in and help out; it was just Ruth. But I want you to pay attention very closely to what Ruth said:
And Ruth the Moabite said to Naomi, “Let me go to the fields and pick up the leftover grain behind anyone in whose eyes I find favor.” Naomi said to her, “Go ahead, my daughter.” Ruth 2:2 (NIV)
Who was she talking about? I am not even sure that Ruth knew. All she knew was that she was going to work, find food, and somewhere somehow she was going to find favor with someone. And shortly after she did. She found favor with Boaz.
Also, check out my video down below on why you should chase the purpose and not the man. And when you chase the purpose the man will come.
2. How God Leads You To Your Spouse ~ What We Can Learn From Ruth
One way that God leads you to your spouse is that you should go about your life and be open to whatever life has to bring your way. Imagine if Ruth was so depressed that she was unable to leave the house. Then she would have never meant Boaz. Also, check out my video below on how to put yourself in position to be found. Where I talk more about the story of Ruth and Boaz.
3. How God Leads You To Your Spouse ~ Be A Helpmate
One of the things that we know about the Bible is that God specifically said to himself that it was not good for man to be alone and thus creating Eve from Adams’s rib. And so God said the following about the creation of Eve.
Now the Lord God said, “It is not good (beneficial) for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper [one who balances him—a counterpart who is] suitable and complementary for him.” Genesis 2:18
Notice what the amplified Bible says: that Eve was someone who was a suitable and complementary helpmate for Adam. This means that one of the ways on how God leads you to your spouse is that you must be suitable and complementary to each other.
4. How God Leads You To Your Spouse ~ How Do You Know Who You Are A Helpmate To
One thing that you don’t want to do is be a helpmate to the wrong person. For example, someone who is not compatible with you or someone whose gifts and talents do not compliment yours. This is not to say that you need to have the same purpose or you have to do the same things, that’s not what I mean.
What I do mean is that you should know your strengths and your weakness, and often times the way on how God leads you to your spouse is that ideally someone will compliment your strengths and help you with your weaknesses also known as being someone who can balance you out. Also, check out my video down below on how to be a helpmate.
5. How God Leads You To Your Spouse ~ Being Equally Yoked?
One of the main premises of how God leads you to your spouse is that you are equally yoked with one another which you click my blog here where I go into more detail about that. In my book for single women “Fix It Jesus For Single Women Only (click to buy) I said the following:
For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” 2 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV)
This poses a good question. What does the darkness have to do with the light? What business does a good woman have being with a bad man? Why should a faithful person be with a cheater? Why should someone who works hard be with a lazy person?
If you are a Christian, then yes you should seek out another Christian but that is a given. More than anything what are you bringing to the table? And are you looking for someone who can bring something similar? There is no reason for your whole life to be a hot mess where there is nothing good about you and you have absolutely nothing going for yourself.
Do you think that it would be fair for a man who works hard, has a good job, and has everything going for himself to want to be with you? How would that be fair to him? How could you be equally yoked if you bring nothing to the table and you bring him down?
6. How God Leads You To Your Spouse ~ Are You Equally Yoked
The main point that you need to remember about equally yoked is that you are going to attract what you are. So if you believe that God has an amazing spouse for you then while you are single you need to start becoming that person now. The last thing you want to do is to keep going in life doing nothing only to meet the one that God has for you and he doesn’t want you because you are not equally yoked with them. Also, check out my video down below on this.
7. How God Leads You To Your Spouse ~ Final Points
Here are some of the final points that I want you to take about how God leads you to your spouse.
- God can lead but you still have to do your part.
- Be open and be trusting that God is leading you to your spouse with each life step that you take.
- Get to know yourself and what type of person will compliment you and what will be the type of personyou compliment.
These are all the tips on how God leads you to your spouse don’t forget to share this post if you know someone who may want to read it and don’t forget to pick up my book for single women as well “Fix It Jesus For Single Women Only.”