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Let’s get into the signs he’s not in love with you and he is just with you because he is bored. I know it can be a hard truth to face that he’s just wasting your time because he’s bored and here you are putting all your work into a relationship only to get minimal effort in return. But if you are asking yourself does he really like me or is he bored? Then I have to believe that you came across this blog for a reason and I owe it to you to give you an honest answer. The fact of the matter is that just because a man shows some interest in you does not mean that he is in love with you, it may be because he is bored.
Never think that men do not get lonely no matter how much of a façade they put on. They do but many men handle it differently than women and a man who is just with you because he’s is bored may give you just enough to keep you around but you can internally tell that he low-key is not really and truly invested. Women have a tendency to get more attached while men can remain more objective about the relationships that they enter and give you the impression that they want to be with you when really he is showing you all the signs he’s just wasting your time. So why don’t we get into it shall we? The signs he’s not in love with you and is just with you because he’s bored.
1. He Gives You Just Enough
One of the huge signs that he’s wasting your time is that he gives you just enough in order to keep you around but he does not actually give you his all. For example, if you complain about him not spending enough time with you he may act right for a week or two and then go right back to how things were before you complained. That is because he is giving out just enough to keep you around and make you think that the relationship is progressing when in all actuality he is just giving you bread crumbs and putting forth the minimal amount of effort just to keep you around. Also, check out my video below on other manipulation techniques used by men. Don’t forget to subscribe to my channel by clicking here.
2. He Refuses To Express Any Emotions
One of the key signs he’s not in love with you but is just with you because he is bored is that he low key kind of says it. For example, if you say that you love him and he continues to bead around the bush about him not knowing how he feels about you, or that he has emotions for you but he cannot put it into words or gives you some random crap answer about how he is wounded and can never love again that is a dead sign he’s not in love with you because he cannot even verbalize he love for you.
3. He Only Contacts You When He Is Bored
If you want a true answer to does he like me or is he bored then you will know because the only time he makes time for you is when he is bored? If you find him only wanting to spend time with you in between his vacation, nights out at the club, or if he calls you at the last minute when it is obvious that he has nothing else to do with his time. Then that is another one of the signs that he not in love with you and is with you because he is just bored. If he really loved you then he would make time to go on vacations with you, take you out, and do things with you not exclude you from these moments in his life and not just wants to spend time with you because he has nothing else to do.
4. You’re Only His Netflix and Chill
I have an entire blog dedicated to why Netflix and Chill is not a real date that you can read here. A lot of men who are just with you because he’s bored and not actually interested in you will actually try to convince you that Netflix and Chill is a real date and he is too tired to anywhere with you so you mine as well come and chill at his place. Which is one of the huge signs that he’s not in love with you and he’s wasting your time if MOST or ALL of your Netflix and chill interactions just end up in sex.
And do not get caught up in the Netflix and chill title. If he just always want to invite you over to his house with no indication of wanting to take you anywhere or to date you then this is a huge indication he’s wasting your time and is not really interested in you but is just interested in having sex with you and having you in his house makes it a lot easier to have you near his bed.
5. He Never Prioritizes You
The biggest sign he’s not in love with you is that he does not prioritize you. If you are with a man and he is with you because he’s bored then he will probably prioritize everything and everyone else over you. For example, if he has plans with you and something else comes up he will have no problems canceling on you to go do something else.
If you are in a position where you really need to talk to him or need him to do something for you and he makes every excuse under the sun as to why he cannot be there for you when you need him, does not answer your text for days or even weeks on end, never text or calls you first, or everything else seems more important than you this is a clear indication that he is wasting your time. So now that you know the signs that he’s not in love with you let’s talk about what to do about it. As I said in my video below trust should be earned and not given. You can watch it below and don’t forget to click here to subscribe to my channel.
But as I also said in this video that the only thing you can do about it is leave. This is the true test to test the signs he’s not in love with you. And do not walk away as part of some game. Just know if a man is not giving you what you want then you have every right to walk away and get someone who will.
At which point he will either act right, adjust his behavior to give you the love you deserve OR if he’s just with you because he’s bored then he will either continue to give you a half-hearted effort to win you back or he will just find another woman that will take his nonsense and start wasting her time. But if a man is not giving you the time attention or the love that you deserve then you have every right to walk away and should. If you know someone who needs to read this post then don’t forget to share it with them and also for you single ladies consider getting my book specifically for you. Click here to buy.