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If you are looking for how to be pretty to other people then it is really not a secret. Because if you are a reader of my blog then you know that I am about to say a few things about how to be pretty that you must always keep in the back of your mind. And that is:
- Beauty is subjective.
Meaning that if you have preconceived notions about how you look and you feel that you will never learn to be pretty because you are not naturally pretty, then stop that thinking right now. Beauty is literally subjective in the person that is looking at you AND….
- Beauty is not contingent upon just your looks.
Have you ever seen a woman or even a man that was so attractive but when you got to know them either they were too arrogant, superficial, or had no intellect about them whatsoever? And all of that attractiveness goes out the window.
And that is because beauty does run more than skin deep and if you want to know how to be truly pretty then you must be a beautiful person that has something going on for yourself inside and out.
- Your beauty is something that you Convince people of
Not in the sense that you are walking around telling people how great you are. But rather how you feel about yourself is how other people will feel about you. If you have ever seen a really beautiful woman but yet she kept entering bad relationships and men kept dogging her out.
She would be an indicator of how she convinced other people how pretty she is based on how she feels about herself. So if she had daddy issues (see my blog here) or low self esteem that is how other people will see her despite her beauty. Because she does not see her own worth.
How To Be Pretty Enhance Your Natural Pretty
You can click here to see my other blog on how to be more attractive. But one thing that women need to realize when being flooded with social media fake build a bear women, that this is not most women.
You do not need to change the entire structure of your face through plastic surgery but rather enhance what you already have. Find out what features about yourself you like the most and find a way to enhance those features.
- If your best features are your eyes, then consider wearing makeup that enhances that.
- If your best features are your legs, then wear more skirts or dresses that show them off.
- If your best features are your arms, then wear outfits that show them off.
It is a lot easier to look pretty to others AND to boost your confidence if you know that you are showcasing the best sides of yourself when you go out.
Take Care Of Your Temple
I have spoken about my past struggles with acne and hyperpigmentation on my skin (click here to read more on that). I have also spoken about my weight gain and then weight loss (Click here). But one thing that I learned on how to be pretty is not just about being skinny.
It is about honoring your temple, in what you eat, how much water you drink, having a self care routine (which I have a blog here on), and even exercising. And that when you take natural action to keep your body more healthy then it will show through your skin.
- For example, drinking tons of water helps your skin and helps with weight loss.
- Exercise helps with weight loss but also helps keep you healthy overall.
- Taking hair and skin vitamins (which you can click here to buy some amazing ones) helps your body with nutrients and can help your skin.
My point is that I used to think skincare was not that important when I could just wear makeup. The result of that was more acne and bumps under my makeup. When I took care of my skin my makeup actually looked a lot better through healthy sin. You can also check out my video below on learning how to honor your temple. And don’t forget to subscribe to my channel by clicking here.
Look Like You Care About What You Put On
Caring about what you put on goes beyond dressing in the latest fashions. Someone can be in the latest fashion and still look at hot mess. One example that I also like to give would be:
Would you show up to a job interview in your pajamas?
Probably not. So why step outdoors like that. You do not know who can give you a job or who you may attract. And people notice. When you actually try to put your best foot forward in dressing yourself and not just slapping something on that says to other people that you must care about yourself and it sends a message for them to do the same.
And it is not expensive to wear nice clothes. I want you to take my video for example, where I literally was able to create multiple outfits from a few items and still would look presentable when I left the house.
That is why it is important to know your body type, dress to impress, even if you are dressing casual, and that is a quick way on how to be pretty to others.
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I hope that all of these tips taught you how to be pretty to others. Not that you seek validation but because you should be pretty to others. If you know someone who may want to read this post then share it with them.