5 Ways On How To Get A Man You Want From The Bible

Learn how to get a man to chase you, how to get a man to fall in love with you, how to attract a guy, and how to attract a man, find out how to do all these things for these relationship tips from the famously single women of the Bible

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If you are looking for the best tips on how to get a man then I promise that the BEST advice that you can get is from women in the Bible. I know it can sound a little crazy, the Bible is old and you may be wondering how can any of these women relate to you? Well, that is exactly what I am going to show you. If it can work for them, then it can work for you. What do you have to lose?

You ready, let’s get into it.

1. How To Get A Man You Want ~ From Esther Be pretty, Be Feminine

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Bible verse to back up what I am saying: This young woman, who was also known as Esther, had a lovely figure and was beautiful. Esther 2:7

If you are a reader of my blog then you know that I give encouragement, advice, and I also incorporate beauty. And it is exactly for this reason. There is nothing wrong with looking nice (see my blog here) or even embracing your feminine nature as a woman. The fact of the matter is that when a man has attracted you, the first thing that is going to draw him in is your outward appearance.  So why not have a nice outward appearance.

How to get a man you want Bible verse: Now the king was attracted to Esther more than to any of the other women, and she won his favor and approval more than any of the other virgins. Esther 2:17

So this whole idea that you can just walk out of the house looking any kind of way, not caring about yourself, your appearance, your health, what you look like and just letting yourself GO is not a good way to get a man.

No one is saying that you have to look like you have just walked off the cover of Italian Vogue. But embracing the fact that you are a woman, embracing your body, and looking like someone a man would want to be with can take you a long way. In Esther’s case, it got her a king and she became queen.

Below is an excerpt from my book for single moms in which I made the following point about Esther:

“Before a young woman’s turn came to go into King Xerxes, she had to complete twelve months of beauty treatments prescribed for the women, six months with oil of myrrh and six with perfumes and cosmetics.” Esther 2:12

Before Esther became queen, she did not just walk in there and automatically become queen. It took a lot of training and it took a lot of preparation. She knew that she had to wait 12 months before going before the king and she needed to take beauty treatments, smell nice, and have soft skin.

Therefore, take care of yourself and put forth and effort on how you present yourself to the world.  If you want to buy my Single Mom’s devotional then click here, also you can click here to get the first chapter for free.

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2. How To Get A Man You Want ~  From Ruth

For this tip on how to get a man you want, Ruth teaches us to be humble and be a woman that is admired from afar

Bible verse to back up what I am saying:

How to get a man you want Bible verse: Boaz replied, “I’ve been told all about what you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband—how you left your father and mother and your homeland and came to live with a people you didn’t know before. May the Lord repay you for what you have done. May you be richly rewarded by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge. Ruth 2:11-12 

These are the words that Boaz spoke to Ruth as for the reason why he was attracted to her. The first thing I want to point out is that Boaz said: “ I have been told about all the things that you have done for your mother and law.” Please note that Ruth was not going around bragging about herself, what she was doing, and what she was about.

If you are really a good woman then it is not going to take all of that. Other people should see that in you and you should not have to brag about yourself in order to get the attention of a man. He should be able to see that on his own. Remember to be humble, there is nothing that is a bigger turn off than a woman who has to talk about herself and on herself all the time.

Also, another tip for how to get a man you want remember you must be be a woman that is admired from afar. In my book for single women ” Fix It Jesus For Single Women Only” (which you can buy here) I made the following point about Ruth.

The reason why I am telling you all of this is because I want you to look at Ruth, respect Ruth, and try to imitate Ruth in some of the areas of her life. It is so hard in the world today with people being naked and doing a lot of stupid things for likes on social media. Being the hardworking woman that demands respect of a hardworking man who is doing well for himself is starting not to be the norm.

You can be a good and godly woman and trust that God has a Boaz waiting for you. Keep being the woman that God created you to be and one who God is proud of and one who is admired from afar. Notice Ruth did not stand at the corner batting her eyes at every man that walked by in hopes that someone would put a ring on it. No, she worked hard.

So the main lesson that you can take from Ruth is to have a good reputation, be a hard worker, and be humble. All of these are traits that attract men. To buy this book click here. If you the first chapter of my book for single women for free click here.

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3. How To Get A Man You Want A Lesson From Rachel

A Man Should Chase You, Provide For You, And Wait for You.

Bible verse to back up what I am saying:  So Jacob served seven years to get Rachel, but they seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her. Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife. My time is completed, and I want to make love to her.” Genesis 29: 20-21

There are three points that I would like to make in the case of Rachel and Jacob.

How To get a man you want remember He chased her. The first is that Jacob was the pursuer of the relationship. Sure, Rachel loved him back but she was not running after Jacob, she did not have to force him to work, to be with her, or even to wait for her. He did that all on his own. AND Jacob was the one that did what he had to do to prove that he was a good candidate for Rachel to marry. He proved this to both Rachel and her father.

How to get a man you want remember He had a job. Check out my blog on a man that does not work, does not eat.  If you want to get a man, get a man that has a job and one that works hard. Get a man that wants to provide for his family and is not afraid of a little hard work in order to do so. Do not get a lazy man that does nothing and one that you have to take care of.

How to get the man you want remember He was not trying to use her for sex. If you check out the last Bible verse about Jacob said that he wanted to make love to her AFTER he had her as his wife.  If you want to get a good man then do not use sex as a weapon to get him and a man should not be pressuring you for sex and telling you that if he does not have sex with you then he does not know if he can be with you. Love goes beyond the act of sex and like Jacob, he should be willing to prove himself as a man first before trying to get the goods.

4. How To Get A Man You Want A Lesson From Eve

Be Supportive

Bible verse where I got this from: Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Genesis 2:18

Now don’t make the mistake in thinking that I am encouraging you as a woman to be a man’s slave. Marriage is not some modern form of slavery where you just do anything that a man wants. The Bible does not support that (click to read my blog here).

What I am saying is that as a woman you should be supportive and you should not be a drain on the relationship. Don’t be that woman that every time a man shares his dreams with you, you shoot them down, tell him they are dumb, and make him feel like crap afterward.

That is not helpful, supportive, and no one wants to be in a relationship with that. Another thing that you should not be doing is being Debbie Downer always negative and complaining.

Instead, choose to be supportive and lend a hand where you can. God gifted us, women, with a certain type of wisdom and intuition that men do not have. So use that to help your man. NOTICE that what I did not say is do everything for him. A helper is not a woman that provides for a man while he sits on her couch and does nothing and a helper is not a woman who pays for everything while he does nothing. Remember the lesson from Rachel and Jacob. HE WORKED and PROVIDED.

Here are some good couples that I think are very good helpmates to their husband. Think along the Michelle and Barack Obama type relationship. Where he was the president and she was the first lady, still educated and I am sure offering guidance where it was needed. It was a balanced relationship. 

Also, don”t forget to check out my video below for more relationship advice from women of the Bible.

5. How To Get A Man You Want A Lesson From Rebekah

Don’t Be So Free With Your Body

Bible Verse to Prove what I am saying: The woman was very beautiful, a virgin; no man had ever slept with her. Genesis 24:16

Okay so you may not be a virgin and that is okay. I have written several blog posts on being celibate which you can read here and here.

There are several reasons why being loose with your body will not help you keep a man. If you sleep with a man on the first date or sleep with him too soon then it is a large possibility that he will just see you for sex. If you have a bad reputation for sleeping with a lot of men or passing yourself around, it can be hard for a man to take you seriously because he will just think of you as sex. Therefore, don’t give it up too soon and try not to get a reputation for being promiscuous.

There you have it, how to get a man according to 5 women of the Bible who not only got their men BUT got amazing men. And since there is nothing new under the sun (Ecclesiastes 1:9), how they went about things and how they got their men can work for you also.

Also check out my blog on how to be a high-value woman, lessons from other women in the Bible.

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  1. These are interesting tidbits from the Bible and I’ve never given them interpretations such as you did in this post. The Bible is indeed a guide. A lamp unto the feet of believers. Will work on myself with these tips.

  2. These are some interesting tips that I’m sure some women will find useful. I personally feel like the best way to find a partner is to be myself and the person that’s meant to come into my life will at the right time for both of us.

  3. I’ll have to say, I’ve never seen this translation of Biblical women before 😉 My fave is forever and always Ruth. So humble, so beautifully gracious and faithful.

  4. it’s amazing how an ancient text like the bible, written in a time when women were considered less than animals can still teach us something today!

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