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In this post, I am going to tell you the best ways to get over a breakup. They are easy steps to follow BUT of course, it is a breakup, and with your emotions into it, it can be hard.
Since most women have had experiences with losing their minds after a breakup I do not want this to happen to you. Also, be sure to check my video below on how to get over your ex. Click here to subscribe to my channel.
1. Best Ways To Get Over A Breakup ~ What are you upset for?
If you really reflect on this question most of the time you are upset that the man is gone and you are going to be single again. Often times as women we convince ourselves that we were in love when really the relationship had been going downhill for a long time
And if this is the case, then once again what are you so upset for? Because someone who was bad for you anyway is not in your life? Because he broke up with you, you broke up with him, or you broke up with each other?
And if that is the case, is that a legit reason to be upset? Yeah, it hurts emotionally, but in a way you should be glad that you are not wasting your time on someone that is not a good fit for you, does not want you, or you do not want them. Instead, I want you to reframe the breakup. Instead of looking at it like a breakup look at it as if he is doing you a favor. That he set you free AND he set you free that you can find someone that really does want to be with you.
2. Best Ways To Get Over A Breakup ~ Let It Go
One of the best ways to get over a breakup is to just let go. Don’t try to get your ex back or whine over him because he is gone. You need to accept it and move on. If you choose not to accept it, you are just going to prolong the inevitable. The more you are stuck on him that is that is going to keep you from moving on or wanting someone who does not want you.
The more you sit and whine over a man the longer it will take you to get over him. It is like you are putting your mind into eternal torment because you keep thinking what if, why did he break up with me, how can I get him back? The longer you are going to sit and fester in depression and sadness that is what you will become and you will never recover.
Best Ways To Get Over A Breakup ~ Case in point
I had a girlfriend that broke up with the “love of her life” YEARS ago. And she is still stuck on him. He is moved on, married, has kids and she is still stuck on him. And the fact that she is still stuck on him has kept her from moving on.
She is resentful toward men and then every man she meets she compares to her ex because they are not him. DO NOT BE MY FRIEND. He is gone, let him be gone, and don’t go through great lengths to try to get him back or give him more brain space than what he deserves.
Instead focus your brain space on leveling up, if you want to know what I mean then check out my video on how to level up on an ex below.
3. Best Ways To Get Over A Breakup ~ Don’t Lose Your Mind
Another one of the best ways to get over a breakup is to remember, you cannot let your breakup disrupt your entire way of being. Suicide or becoming his side chick is not the answer to your breakup. Never think that because he broke up with you that you are not worth anything anymore than him. After a breakup, many women move on to food, sex, drugs, alcohol, and everything in between to get their minds off of off the breakup.
All this is doing is destroying yourself instead of making yourself better. You may be wondering how do I pretend to be happy when everything in my soul is telling me to jump off a building? I will tell you this. Dealing with a breakup is not easy, but sitting there destroying yourself and your own life will make things much worse.
It is not okay to be needy, making drunken calls to your ex, and beg for them to come back! Being needy does not make a man want to come back or make them realize what a mistake they made.
If they do not want to be with you, then they do not want to be with you. It is their loss. Get some self-esteem (also check out my blog on how to get confidence after a breakup) and realize that you are the prize here. And even if you do not think that you are the prize then lie to yourself and tell yourself you are until you believe it.
Also, check out my video on how to stop trying to hang on to what God is trying to tear away below.
It is okay to mourn for a little while. (By a little while, I mean a few weeks or a month at most…..NOT YEARS!). No, everything will not be better in a week. But the days of you sitting on the couch, calling out from work, and eating ice cream all day should be over.
At some point, you should get up, put on some clothing, makeup, and get some fresh air. Do not let the fact that one man did not want you to be a reason to have a mental break with reality. There are literally billions of other men on planet Earth, I am sure you will be fine.
Trying to hurt yourself, gaining 50 pounds, and doing things to yourself that would just make things worse for YOU, has done nothing to HIM. Do you think that he is sitting around after he broke up with you thinking about all the stuff you are doing to yourself to make yourself worse? No, he is not and if he is, then he is probably getting a kick out of it thinking that he made his ex-girlfriend lose her mind. Don’t give him the satisfaction.
You need to adopt the attitude that losing you is their loss. Because it is.
If someone is willing to pass your over, then why would you want to be with them anyway? Why would you want to be with anyone that did not appreciate your value and was willing to let you go?
Which I have a video on, that is even one of my personal favorites. It is what to do when a man does not see your value.
So if you want to know how to deal with a breakup, the best breakup advice I can give you is to put on your big girl panties and get over it. THAT’S IT. Do Not gain another 100 pounds, beg for the person to come back, or wonder what you did wrong.
The best ways to get over a breakup is to deal with the breakup. Do not have a mental breakdown and tell them that you cannot live without them. You have your own life to live you were not born with him attached to your hip and you will not die with him attached to your hip. Don’t forget to go after what YOU want and make the most of your life. Even if that does NOT include him.
Here were the best ways to get over a breakup. Do you know someone going through a breakup? If so, then feel free to share this post with them.
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